Confidence begins with happiness. Think about the things that make you most happy and contented, make a note of these and reflect on them when your confidence needs a boost. It can help you forget your insecurities and focus on something more positive instead. Happiness has a place in all our lives and when we are happy, we are relaxed and also exhibit the most confidence. We can seek out opportunities and the things that make us happy or bring a little happiness to someone else. Being happy feels great, lessens our concerns and makes us more relaxed and confident.